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There are moments in life when reality arrives uninvited. A canceled flight. A painful diagnosis. A relationship ending. A season of loneliness. A body that no longer works the way it once did. A family member who keeps disappointing us.

In those moments, many of us instinctively do what humans naturally do: we resist. We argue with reality in our minds. We replay what should have happened. We obsess over how unfair it is. We mentally bargain for a different version of the present moment. This is understandable. It is also exhausting. Radical acceptance is the practice of acknowledging reality as it is—even when we don’t like it. It does not mean approval, passivity, or giving up. It means ending the inner war with what is already true. And paradoxically, when we stop fighting reality, we often regain the energy and clarity needed to move forward.

What Is Radical Acceptance?

The concept of radical acceptance is often associated with psychologist Marsha Linehan, founder of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). She described acceptance as fully opening to the facts of the present moment rather than denying, resisting, or raging against them. Radical acceptance means:

• This happened.
• I don’t like it.
• I may grieve it.
• I may work to change what can be changed.
• But I stop pretending it isn’t real.

Acceptance reduces suffering because suffering is often pain plus resistance. Pain may be unavoidable. Resistance is where much of the extra suffering lives.

A Personal Example

Recently, I was flying to Charleston to visit my sister. I had been looking forward to the trip for weeks. Then my flight was canceled. The only option available was a brutal red-eye: departing around midnight, arriving around 10 a.m. the next day after a layover. I would lose precious time with my sister and arrive exhausted. At first, I felt exactly what many people feel: frustration, disappointment, mental protest. “This is ridiculous.” “This shouldn’t be happening.” “This messes up the trip.” And while those feelings were natural, they did not improve the situation. The flight was still canceled. Eventually, I shifted into acceptance: I don’t like this. I’m disappointed. And this is what is happening.

That shift didn’t magically make it pleasant. But it reduced the emotional suffering layered on top of the inconvenience. It helped me conserve energy, adapt, and stay connected to what mattered most: getting there and enjoying the time I did have.

The Quicksand Metaphor

Radical acceptance can be understood through the metaphor of quicksand. If you fall into quicksand, your instinct may be to thrash, panic, and fight wildly. But struggling often pulls you deeper. The wiser response is to slow down, widen your body, and work with reality rather than against it.

Life can be similar. When something painful happens, frantic inner resistance often sinks us deeper into stress, anxiety, bitterness, or despair. Acceptance is not surrender to quicksand. It is learning how to move wisely within difficult terrain.

The Beach Ball Under Water

Another helpful image: imagine trying to hold a beach ball underwater. It takes constant effort. The ball keeps pushing upward. Your arms tire. Water splashes everywhere. This is what emotional suppression and resistance often feel like. We try to shove grief down. Push anger away. Deny fear. Control uncertainty. But eventually the beach ball bursts upward. Acceptance means allowing the ball to float beside you instead of exhausting yourself trying to force it under. You can acknowledge sadness without becoming sadness. You can feel anger without acting destructively. You can admit fear without being ruled by fear.

Why Radical Acceptance Is So Powerful

When people practice radical acceptance, they often experience:

Reduced Anxiety

Much anxiety is fueled by fighting uncertainty. Acceptance helps us tolerate what we cannot fully control.

Greater Emotional Regulation

Naming reality can calm the nervous system. The body often relaxes when the mind stops arguing with facts.

More Energy

Resistance consumes mental and emotional bandwidth. Acceptance frees that energy for meaningful action.

Better Relationships

Acceptance allows us to see others more clearly rather than endlessly demanding they be someone they are not.

Increased Resilience

Resilience is not pretending pain doesn’t exist. It is learning to meet pain honestly and adaptively.

What Radical Acceptance Is Not

It’s important to be clear: Radical acceptance is not:

• Saying abuse is okay
• Staying in harmful situations
• Avoiding change
• Giving up goals
• Becoming emotionally numb

You can accept reality and work to improve it. For example:

• Accepting that a relationship is unhealthy may empower you to leave.
• Accepting grief may help healing begin.
• Accepting financial stress may help you create a practical plan.

Acceptance is often the first step toward wise action.

How to Practice Radical Acceptance

Here are a few gentle ways to begin:

1. Name the Facts

Ask yourself: What is true right now? Not what should be true. Not what used to be true. What is true now?

2. Notice the Fight

Where are you arguing internally with reality? Listen for thoughts like:

• This shouldn’t be happening
• I can’t stand this
• It needs to be different

3. Use Grounding Language

Try saying:

• I don’t like this, and it is here.
• This is painful, and I can handle this moment.
• I can meet reality one breath at a time.

4. Feel the Body

Notice where resistance lives physically—jaw, chest, shoulders, stomach. Invite one small exhale. Soften one muscle group.

5. Focus on the Next Wise Step

Once reality is acknowledged, ask: What is one helpful next step?

Radical Acceptance in Therapy

In counseling, radical acceptance can be especially healing for:

• Anxiety
• Chronic stress
• Relationship pain
• Trauma recovery
• Life transitions
• Grief and loss
• Perfectionism
• Shame

Therapy offers support in learning how to accept painful truths without collapsing into hopelessness.

Final Reflection

Many of us spend years trying to win battles against reality. But peace often begins when we stop fighting what already is. Acceptance does not erase pain. It transforms our relationship to pain. Sometimes strength looks less like conquering life and more like opening our hands.

References

• Marsha Linehan (1993). Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder.
• Steven C. Hayes et al. (1999). Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
• Jon Kabat-Zinn (1990). Full Catastrophe Living.

There’s a moment I remember clearly.

I was sitting across from a client who had done all the “right” things in therapy. She could articulate her thoughts beautifully. She understood her patterns. She had insight into her childhood and could name her triggers with precision.

And yet—she still felt stuck.

“I know why I feel this way,” she said, her voice tight, “but my body doesn’t seem to care.”

Her hands were clenched. Her shoulders lifted slightly toward her ears. Her breath was shallow.

That moment captures something many people experience: we can understand our pain intellectually and still feel overwhelmed, anxious, or shut down in our bodies. This is where somatic therapy offers something powerful and different.

What Is Somatic Therapy?

Somatic therapy is an approach to healing that recognizes the body as an essential part of emotional processing and recovery. Rather than focusing only on thoughts and narratives, somatic therapy helps clients tune into physical sensations—tightness, warmth, numbness, breath, posture—and use those sensations as a pathway to healing.

At its core, somatic therapy is based on a simple but profound idea:

Our bodies hold our experiences, especially stress and trauma.

When something overwhelming happens, the nervous system mobilizes to protect us—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. If those responses don’t get fully processed, they can linger in the body as chronic tension, anxiety, disconnection, or reactivity.

Somatic therapy helps gently complete those unfinished responses.

Key Concepts in Somatic Therapy

1. The Nervous System Is the Foundation

Somatic therapy is deeply rooted in understanding the autonomic nervous system. Clients learn to recognize when they are in states of:

• Activation (anxiety, anger, urgency)
• Shutdown (numbness, fatigue, disconnection)
• Regulation (calm, grounded, present)

The goal is not to eliminate activation, but to increase flexibility—helping the nervous system move more fluidly between states.

2. Interoception: Listening to the Body

Interoception is the ability to notice internal sensations—your heartbeat, breath, muscle tension, or even subtle shifts like a flutter in your chest.

Many people have learned to ignore or override these signals. Somatic therapy helps rebuild that connection in a safe, gradual way.

A client might begin with something as simple as:

• “What do you notice in your body right now?”
• “Where do you feel that emotion?”

These small questions can open the door to deeper awareness and healing.

3. Pendulation and Titration

Two core somatic principles are pendulation (moving between discomfort and safety) and titration (working with small, manageable amounts of sensation).

Rather than diving headfirst into painful memories, clients learn to gently touch into difficult experiences and then return to a sense of safety or neutrality.

This prevents overwhelm and helps the nervous system learn that it can experience discomfort without being consumed by it.

4. Completion of Stress Responses

Animals in the wild naturally discharge stress—through shaking, running, or deep breaths. Humans often suppress these impulses.

Somatic therapy allows the body to complete these responses in subtle ways. This might look like:

• Allowing a hand to push against something when recalling a boundary violation
• Noticing the impulse to move or stretch
• Letting a breath deepen naturally

These small actions can have profound effects on how the body processes stored stress.

A Shift That Changes Everything

Returning to that client I mentioned earlier, we began to slow things down.

Instead of analyzing her anxiety, I asked, “What’s happening in your body right now as you talk about this?”

She paused. “My chest feels tight.”

We stayed there. No rushing to fix it. Just noticing.

Over time, she learned to track that tightness, to breathe with it, to gently move in and out of it. Eventually, she noticed something surprising: the sensation would shift on its own.

“It’s like my body is finally finishing something,” she said one day.

That’s the work. Not forcing change—but allowing it.

How You Can Access Somatic Benefits on Your Own

While working with a trained therapist is ideal, there are simple ways to begin reconnecting with your body in everyday life:

1. Pause and Notice

Take 30 seconds a few times a day to ask:

• What do I feel in my body right now?
• Where is there tension? Ease?

No need to change anything—just notice.

2. Ground Through the Senses

Look around and name:

• 5 things you can see
• 4 things you can feel
• 3 things you can hear

This helps bring your nervous system into the present moment.

3. Follow the Breath (Gently)

Instead of controlling your breath, simply notice it.

Where do you feel it most—chest, belly, throat?

Let it be exactly as it is.

4. Micro-Movements Matter

If your body wants to stretch, shift, or adjust—follow that impulse.

These small movements can help release stored tension.

5. Create Moments of Safety

Notice what feels even slightly good:

• Warm sunlight
• A soft blanket
• A quiet moment

Let yourself linger there for a few extra seconds. This helps build nervous system resilience.

Bringing Somatic Work into Traditional Therapy

Somatic therapy doesn’t have to replace traditional talk therapy—it can beautifully complement it.

In a typical therapy office, somatic work might look like:

• Pausing mid-conversation to notice body sensations
• Tracking shifts in posture, tone, or breath
• Using grounding techniques during difficult topics
• Helping clients recognize early signs of activation
• Integrating body awareness into cognitive or insight-based work

Even small somatic interventions can deepen therapy significantly. Instead of staying at the level of “thinking about feelings,” clients begin to experience and move through them.

Why This Work Matters

We live in a culture that prioritizes thinking, analyzing, and problem-solving. These are valuable skills—but they’re only part of the picture.

Healing often requires something slower, quieter, and more embodied.

It requires learning to listen to the body—not as a problem to fix, but as a guide.

When we do, something shifts.

We feel more present. More connected. Less reactive. More ourselves.

Or as one client put it:

“I didn’t realize how far away I was from my body… until I started coming back.”

References

• Levine, P. A. (1997). Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma. North Atlantic Books.
• Levine, P. A. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness. North Atlantic Books.
• Ogden, P., Minton, K., & Pain, C. (2006). Trauma and the Body: A Sensorimotor Approach to Psychotherapy. W.W. Norton & Company.
• van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Viking.
• Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory. W.W. Norton & Company.
• Dana, D. (2018). The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy. W.W. Norton & Company.
• Payne, P., Levine, P. A., & Crane-Godreau, M. A. (2015). “Somatic experiencing: using interoception and proprioception as core elements of trauma therapy.” Frontiers in Psychology, 6, 93.

In conversations about mental health, we often talk about therapy, mindfulness, exercise, and self-care. But one of the most powerful influences on emotional wellbeing is often overlooked: friendship.

Strong social relationships play a profound role in our mental and physical health. Research consistently shows that people with meaningful friendships are happier, healthier, and more resilient during difficult times.

At Heart & Mind Counseling, I often see how connection—or the lack of it—affects people’s emotional wellbeing. Many struggles with anxiety, depression, and stress are closely linked to feelings of loneliness or disconnection.

Friendship, it turns out, is not just a pleasant part of life. It may be one of the most important foundations for psychological health.

Why Social Connection Is Essential for Mental Health

Humans are wired for connection. Our brains evolved in communities where cooperation and belonging were essential for survival. Even today, our nervous systems still depend on social connection to regulate stress and maintain emotional balance.

Research confirms this biological need for connection. A landmark meta-analysis of 148 studies found that people with strong social relationships had a 50% greater chance of survival compared to those with weaker relationships (Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010).

Social connection influences health in several important ways:

• It helps regulate the nervous system during stress

• It provides emotional support during difficult times

• It reinforces healthy behaviors

• It increases feelings of belonging and meaning

In contrast, chronic loneliness can have significant effects on mental health. Studies have linked social isolation to higher rates of depression, anxiety, heart disease, and even early mortality (U.S. Surgeon General, 2023).

In other words, friendship is not simply about companionship—it is a key component of wellbeing.

How Friendships Support Emotional Resilience

When life becomes difficult, friends often play a crucial role in helping us cope.

Supportive friendships provide a space where we can share our experiences, process emotions, and gain perspective. Simply talking with someone who listens and understands can reduce emotional distress and increase feelings of stability.

Psychologists sometimes refer to this as co-regulation. When we feel overwhelmed, our nervous system can calm down in the presence of a supportive and caring person.

Friendships also help normalize our experiences. Hearing that others have faced similar challenges can reduce shame and increase hope.

Sometimes the most healing words we hear from a friend are simply, “I get it.”

The Health Benefits of Strong Friendships

Friendships influence not only emotional wellbeing but physical health as well.

Research has linked strong social relationships to:

• Lower levels of inflammation

• Stronger immune function

• Reduced risk of depression

• Lower rates of cardiovascular disease

• Increased longevity

Friends also influence our daily habits. People who maintain close friendships are more likely to exercise, seek medical care when needed, and maintain healthier lifestyles overall.

In many ways, friendship functions as a quiet support system that helps sustain both emotional and physical health.

Quality of Friendships Matters More Than Quantity

Many people worry about how many friends they have. However, research suggests that the quality of friendships matters far more than the number.

Anthropologist Robin Dunbar’s research suggests that most people maintain a small inner circle of close relationships—often around three to five trusted friends who provide the deepest emotional support.

These close friendships are characterized by:

• Trust and emotional safety

• Authenticity and vulnerability

• Mutual support

• Shared experiences over time

In therapy, I often see that even one or two meaningful friendships can make a significant difference in someone’s mental health.

What If You Don’t Have Close Friends?

Many adults quietly struggle with this question. They may look around and feel like everyone else already has their social circle, leaving them unsure how to begin.

If this is your experience, you are not alone. Loneliness has become so widespread that the U.S. Surgeon General recently described it as a public health epidemic.

The important thing to remember is that friendships are not something we are simply lucky to have or unlucky to lack. Like many meaningful parts of life, friendship is something we build over time.

Here are a few ways people can begin creating connection:

*Start with shared interests.

*Joining a group activity—such as hiking groups, book clubs, volunteer organizations, or community classes—can make connection feel more natural.

*Be willing to initiate.

*Many people feel hesitant about reaching out, yet most friendships begin when someone simply suggests coffee, a walk, or lunch.

*Focus on consistency rather than intensity.

*Friendship usually grows through repeated small interactions rather than deep conversations right away.

*Look for people who share values rather than identical personalities.

*Kindness, curiosity, and reliability are often more important than having everything in common.

*Allow friendships to develop slowly.Trust and comfort build gradually through shared experiences.

*While it can feel vulnerable to reach out, many people are quietly hoping for deeper connection themselves.

A Personal Inspiration: 

Dinners With Ruth

A few years ago, I read the wonderful book Dinners With Ruth, written by journalist Nina Totenberg. In the book, she reflects on her decades-long friendship with Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

The two women met for dinner regularly over many years, sharing conversation, support, laughter, and encouragement throughout the different seasons of their lives.

What struck me while reading the book was how powerful and sustaining their friendship was. Their dinners were not elaborate events—they were simply a consistent space for connection.

Inspired by this idea, I started something similar with a group of friends. We began a monthly dinner we jokingly call “Dinners With Ruth.”

That was more than two years ago, and we are still gathering every month.

Sometimes we laugh and share stories from our lives. Other times we offer support during difficult moments. Over time the dinners have become something we all look forward to—a steady rhythm of connection.

What began as a simple idea from a book has grown into a meaningful tradition that nourishes all of us.

It’s a reminder that friendships don’t have to happen spontaneously. Sometimes they grow from small, intentional rituals we create together.

Friendship and Healing

In counseling, we often see how meaningful relationships support healing and growth.

Therapy can provide insight, tools, and emotional support. But healing rarely happens in isolation. It also unfolds within caring relationships.

Healthy friendships reinforce the skills we develop in therapy—communication, vulnerability, and emotional support.

They remind us that we are not alone in our experiences.

A Final Reflection

At its heart, friendship is a simple but powerful human experience: two people choosing to walk alongside one another through life.

Friends witness our struggles and our joys. They remind us who we are and help us become who we hope to be.

In a world where loneliness is increasingly common, investing in friendships may be one of the most meaningful forms of self-care available.

Sometimes the most healing moments happen not in extraordinary circumstances, but in ordinary conversations, shared laughter, and the quiet comfort of knowing someone truly understands us.

References

Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T., & Layton, J. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: A meta-analytic review. PLoS Medicine.

U.S. Surgeon General. (2023). Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation.

American Psychological Association. (2023). The Science of Friendship.

Dunbar, R. (2022). Friends: Understanding the Power of Our Most Important Relationships.

Totenberg, N. (2022). Dinners With Ruth: A Memoir on the Power of Friendships.

Resilience is usually described as strength, grit, or the ability to “bounce back.” We admire the comeback story. We cheer for the person who endures hardship and returns stronger, faster, better than before. These stories are tidy and inspiring. They are also incomplete.

Most resilience does not look like a dramatic recovery. It doesn’t announce itself. It doesn’t resolve neatly. And it rarely earns applause.

In my work as a therapist and nature-based guide, I see resilience show up in quieter, more ordinary ways. It shows up in people who keep going without certainty, who soften instead of harden, who slow down instead of push through. It shows up not as triumph, but as presence.

What if resilience isn’t about returning to who you were before, but about staying in relationship with yourself as you are changing?

When “Bouncing Back” Becomes a Burden

The cultural idea of resilience often places responsibility solely on the individual. Be strong. Be adaptable. Don’t fall apart. Keep functioning.

For many people, especially women, caregivers, and those living with chronic stress, this framing turns resilience into a demand rather than a resource. Endurance is praised while exhaustion is ignored. Survival is celebrated while the cost to the nervous system is left unspoken.

Research on chronic stress shows that prolonged activation without sufficient recovery can dysregulate the nervous system and increase vulnerability to anxiety, depression, inflammation, and burnout (McEwen, 1998). Trauma research further demonstrates that the body does not simply “move on” once a stressor ends; it requires safety, time, and regulation to restore balance (van der Kolk, 2014).

From this perspective, resilience is not about toughness. It is about capacity.  It is about the capacity to respond, recover, and remain connected.

A Gentler Definition of Resilience

A more accurate and humane definition of resilience is the ability to adapt while staying connected to yourself, to others, and to meaning.

This kind of resilience does not require constant strength. It allows for pauses. It makes room for rest, doubt, and tenderness. It recognizes that sometimes the most resilient choice is to stop doing what is no longer sustainable.

This reframing matters, because when resilience is defined only as endurance, people learn to override their own signals. When resilience is defined as relationship with the body, the nervous system, and the present moment, people learn to listen.

The Quiet Forms of Resilience No One Applauds

Some of the most resilient acts are the ones no one claps for.

Staying—with grief, uncertainty, or a conversation you’d rather avoid.

Leaving—when something no longer fits, even if leaving feels frightening or disappointing.

Trying again without confidence—not because you feel brave, but because something in you says you’re not done.

Choosing rest in a culture that rewards productivity.

Letting yourself be changed rather than rushing to return to “normal.”

These acts don’t look impressive. They don’t make good headlines. But they require enormous internal strength.

What Nature Teaches Us About Real Resilience

Nature offers a very different model of resilience than our culture does.

Trees do not bounce back after winter. They go dormant. They conserve energy. They shed what cannot be sustained. They wait.

Ecosystems remain resilient not because every organism is strong, but because systems are flexible, interdependent, and responsive. Growth happens in seasons. Rest is built into the design.

When we spend time in nature, our nervous systems remember this rhythm.

A Personal Reflection from the Trail

Recently, I led a snowshoe and hot springs outing. It was a day that felt especially resonant with these ideas. We moved slowly through a quiet winter landscape, snow crunching underfoot, breath visible in the cold air. No one rushed. No one performed. There was laughter, but also  stretches of comfortable silence.

Later, we soaked in the hot springs, steam rising as muscles softened and conversations drifted. What struck me was how little anyone needed to do to feel restored. There was no fixing, no processing, no striving. Just warmth, water, and time.

I watched nervous systems settle in real time. Shoulders dropped. Faces softened. People didn’t emerge “better versions” of themselves. They emerged more themselves.

That, to me, is resilience.

Not transformation through effort, but restoration through connection.

Nervous System Resilience: Flexibility, Not Calm

One common misconception is that resilience means being calm. In reality, resilience is about flexibility—the ability to move between states of activation and rest without getting stuck.

Polyvagal theory helps explain this. A resilient nervous system can mobilize when needed and return to safety when the threat passes (Porges, 2011). The goal is not permanent calm, but responsive regulation.

Nature supports this process in measurable ways. Research shows that time spent in natural environments can lower cortisol levels, reduce rumination, improve mood, and support parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) activation (Bratman et al., 2015; Twohig-Bennett & Jones, 2018).

Importantly, these benefits do not require wilderness adventures or intense effort. Even gentle, unstructured time outdoors can support nervous system regulation.

Resilience as Relationship, Not Achievement

When resilience is framed as an achievement, people feel they are failing if they struggle. When resilience is framed as a relationship with the body, the land, and one’s own limits, struggle becomes part of the process, not evidence of weakness.

This is especially important in times of ongoing stress. Many people are navigating political uncertainty, climate anxiety, relational complexity, and cumulative grief. There is no “after” to bounce back into.

In these moments, resilience looks like staying oriented. Staying curious. Staying connected to what steadies you.

Sometimes it looks like a slow walk in the snow. Sometimes it looks like soaking in warm water. Sometimes it looks like saying no, or doing less, or asking for help.

Honoring the Resilience You’re Already Practicing

If you don’t feel resilient, I invite you to look again.

Notice where you are already adapting. Where you are pacing yourself. Where you are choosing gentleness instead of force. Where you are allowing yourself to be human.

Resilience is not something you have to build from scratch. It is something you are already practicing, often quietly, imperfectly, and without recognition.

And like nature itself, it does not need to be loud to be real.

References

Bratman, G. N., Hamilton, J. P., & Daily, G. C. (2015). The impacts of nature experience on human cognitive function and mental health. Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences, 1249(1), 118–136.

McEwen, B. S. (1998). Protective and damaging effects of stress mediators. New England Journal of Medicine, 338(3), 171–179.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

Twohig-Bennett, C., & Jones, A. (2018). The health benefits of the great outdoors: A systematic review and meta-analysis of greenspace exposure and health outcomes. Environmental Research, 166, 628–637.

van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.

If you’ve ever had a panic attack, you know how overwhelming it can feel. Your heart races, your breathing tightens, your mind spirals, and for a moment it feels like something is seriously wrong. Many people describe anxiety attacks as “feeling like I’m dying” or “completely losing control.” And while the experience is incredibly intense, the truth is: panic attacks are not dangerous — and they are highly treatable.

Whether you’re searching for how to stop a panic attack fast, how to calm anxiety naturally, or when it might be time to see a therapist, this guide offers grounded, research-based tools you can use.

What Is a Panic Attack?

A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Common symptoms include rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, dizziness, shaking, sweating, chest tightness, numbness, or a sense of doom.

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, up to one‑third of adults will experience at least one panic attack in their lifetime. Panic attacks FEEL dangerous, but they’re not harmful. They’re simply the brain’s alarm system going off too loudly.

How to Stop a Panic Attack: Research‑Backed Strategies

1. Slow Your Exhale 
When anxiety peaks, breathing becomes sharp and shallow. Research shows that lengthening the exhale activates the parasympathetic (calming) nervous system. Try a 4‑second inhale and 6‑second exhale for several rounds.

2. Label What’s Happening 
Research from UCLA (Lieberman et al.) shows that naming emotions reduces their intensity. Try saying: “This is a panic attack. I know what this is.”

3. Ground Through the Senses 
Use the 5‑4‑3‑2‑1 grounding technique: 5 things you see, 4 you feel, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste. This interrupts spiraling thoughts and returns you to the present moment.

4. Relax Small Parts of Your Body 
Drop your shoulders. Unclench your jaw. Relax your hands. Tiny shifts send safety cues to the nervous system.

5. Use Cold Temperature 
Cold water or holding an ice cube triggers the mammalian dive reflex, which slows heart rate and calms the body. Research in Biological Psychiatry supports this as a fast‑acting anxiety reducer.

6. Change Your Posture 
Open your chest, roll your shoulders back, and sit upright. A collapsed posture increases feelings of danger.

7. Repeat a Reassuring Phrase 
Try: “This will pass,” “I’m safe,” or “My body is trying to protect me.” You’re riding the wave, not fighting it.

8. Let Nature Support You 
Even stepping outside for a moment, feeling fresh air, or looking at trees can lower anxiety. Research shows nature time reduces cortisol and quiets the brain’s alarm system.

Long‑Term Strategies to Reduce Panic Attacks

1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 
CBT is one of the most researched treatments for panic disorder. It helps retrain the brain’s fear response and reduce avoidance.

2. Interoceptive Exposure 
This involves gradually practicing the sensations you fear (like increased heart rate). Research shows it significantly reduces panic frequency.

3. Mindfulness and Breathwork 
Mindfulness‑based interventions reduce rumination and strengthen emotional regulation. Even five minutes a day makes a difference.

4. Regular Movement 
A major 2022 review in JAMA Psychiatry found exercise as effective as medication for reducing anxiety symptoms.

5. Reducing Avoidance 
Avoiding panic triggers reinforces the fear cycle. Gentle, supported exposure helps your brain relearn safety.

6. Time in Nature 
Outdoor time regulates the nervous system, reduces stress hormones, and supports emotional resilience.

When to Seek Professional Help

Consider therapy if:
– panic attacks are becoming frequent 
– you fear having another attack 
– you’re avoiding places or situations 
– your world is getting smaller 
– panic is affecting sleep, work, or relationships  

Therapy can help break the cycle so panic doesn’t run your life.

Consider medication if:
– panic attacks are severe or long‑lasting 
– you’re unable to function during the day 
– you’ve tried therapy or lifestyle shifts without improvement 
– panic is paired with depression or chronic anxiety  

Medication can create enough stability for therapy tools to work.

You Don’t Have to Handle Panic Alone

Panic attacks are deeply uncomfortable, but they are treatable. With the right tools, support, and understanding, they become less intense, less frequent, and far less frightening.

You deserve to feel grounded, calm, and safe in your own body again — and support is available whenever you’re ready.

Depression can feel heavy, isolating, and overwhelming. If you’re searching for natural ways to treat depression, how to improve your mood without medication, or when to seek therapy, you’re not alone. Many people want to understand how to manage depression naturally before turning to antidepressants — and the good news is that research supports many effective non-medication treatments.

As a therapist in Boise who works with depression, anxiety, and nervous system regulation, I see every day that healing is possible. This guide offers evidence-backed tools, gentle lifestyle shifts, and clear guidance on when professional support can make a difference.

What Is Depression?

Depression is more than sadness — it’s a change in mood, energy, interest, motivation, and the ability to feel pleasure. Common symptoms include fatigue, irritability, difficulty concentrating, low motivation, sleep changes, loss of interest, and persistent sadness or numbness.

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, millions of adults experience depression every year. And while medication can be extremely helpful, it isn’t the only treatment.

Can You Treat Depression Without Medication?

Yes — especially in cases of mild to moderate depression. Research from the American Psychological Association (APA) and National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) shows that psychotherapy and lifestyle-based approaches are first-line treatments for depression and can be as effective as antidepressants for many people.

Natural, Research-Backed Ways to Treat Depression

1. Therapy for Depression 

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT is one of the most effective treatments for depression. It helps shift negative thought patterns, build healthier habits, and create emotional resilience. Research shows CBT is as effective as antidepressants for many individuals.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
ACT helps people reconnect to their values, build psychological flexibility, and create meaning during difficult seasons.

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
MBCT blends mindfulness practices with cognitive therapy and has strong evidence for reducing depression and preventing relapse.

Nature-Based Therapy
Spending intentional time in nature lowers cortisol, reduces rumination, and improves mood. A 2019 study in Frontiers in Psychology showed significant improvements in mental well-being after nature-based interventions.

2. Exercise and Movement 

Movement is one of the strongest non-medication treatments for depression. A 2022 review in JAMA Psychiatry found that exercise can reduce depression symptoms as effectively as antidepressants.

Movement boosts serotonin and dopamine, lowers stress hormones, improves sleep, increases energy, and supports emotional regulation. Walking, hiking, yoga, stretching — it all counts.

3. Improve Sleep 

Sleep and depression influence each other. Poor sleep worsens mood and mood worsens sleep. Improving sleep hygiene — reducing screens at night, establishing a bedtime routine, or evaluating sleep disorders — can dramatically improve symptoms.

4. Nutrition for Depression 

The SMILES Trial (2017) found that a Mediterranean-style diet significantly reduced symptoms in people with moderate depression. Nourishing your body with whole foods, healthy fats, and steady blood sugar helps stabilize energy and mood.

5. Social Support 

Depression thrives in isolation. Getting support — even small amounts — protects against worsening symptoms. This can look like reaching out to a friend, joining a group, connecting with a therapist, or participating in community activities.

6. Mindfulness, Meditation, and Nervous System Regulation 

Mindfulness calms the nervous system and reduces rumination. Research shows mindfulness-based interventions help reduce depressive symptoms and prevent recurrence. Even a few minutes a day makes a difference.

7. Spending Time in Nature 

Nature reduces cortisol, quiets the amygdala (your brain’s alarm system), and increases feelings of peace and connection. Even brief outdoor time can shift mood.

When to Seek Professional Help for Depression

It may be time to reach out to a therapist if:
• depression is lasting more than 2–3 weeks
• everyday tasks feel hard to manage
• you feel disconnected from yourself or others
• you’re withdrawing from friends or activities
• you feel hopeless, numb, or overwhelmed
• sleep or appetite changes are significant
• your motivation is very low  

Therapy can help you understand what’s going on beneath the surface and give you tools to feel more grounded and capable again.

When to Consider Medication

Medication may be appropriate if:
• depression is moderate to severe
• you’re struggling to function day to day
• therapy and lifestyle changes haven’t improved symptoms
• depression is paired with anxiety or panic
• hopelessness or intrusive thoughts are present  

Medication doesn’t mean you’ve failed — sometimes it creates enough stability for therapy and healing to take root.

Can You Use Therapy and Medication Together?

Absolutely. Research shows the combination of therapy and medication is often the most effective treatment for moderate to severe depression. You don’t have to choose one path — the best treatment plan is the one that supports you.

You’re Not Alone — Depression Is Treatable

Treating depression without medication is absolutely possible, and many people find meaningful relief through therapy, movement, nature, sleep support, and lifestyle changes. But if your symptoms feel too heavy to manage alone, reaching out for counseling can be a powerful first step.

You deserve support, a sense of balance, and a life that feels like your own again. Healing is possible — and you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I have been reflecting a lot lately about how to protect our inner peace. In our face-paced world, and especially with the national and global challenges we face, mindfulness has emerged as a powerful tool for cultivating peace, focus, and mental clarity. Mindfulness has been around for centuries and is supported by modern research. Simply put, mindfulness means paying attention to the present moment without judgment. It’s about acknowledging our thoughts, emotions, and body sensations as they arise, rather than becoming consumed and focused on them.

Benefits of a mindfulness practice include:

1. Reduced stress: studies show that mindfulness lowers stress by breaking the cycle of anxious thoughts and thought patterns that lead to stress.
2. Improved focus: a regular mindfulness practice can improve concentration, helping us stay focused in a world full of distractions.
3. Improved emotional resilience: by being more present, mindfulness can help us manage difficult emotions more effectively, thereby increasing resilience.

Simple Ways to Start

You don’t need to spend hours doing meditation in order to benefit from a mindfulness practice. Start small:
 Mindful breathing- Focus on your breath for a few minutes. Notice how it feels to inhale and then exhale. When your mind wanders, gently bring it back to your breathing.
 Body scan- Pay attention to how each part of your body feels. Start with your toes and move up to your head. Spend just a few seconds on each body part.
 Mindful eating- Savor each bite, noticing flavors, colors, textures and aromas.

The Takeaway

Incorporating mindfulness into daily life does not require a big time commitment. It only requires a willingness to be present. By practicing mindfulness, you may find yourself feeling calmer, clearer, and more connected to life’s simple, beautiful moments.

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depression (2 nd ed.). Guilford Press.

Not long ago, I was walking along a trail when I noticed a tiny wildflower growing out of a crack in a rock. It stopped me in my tracks. Against all odds, no soil, no shade, no comfort, it bloomed anyway. Not perfectly. Not symmetrically. But fully, bravely, and beautifully.

That small flower has stayed with me. It reminded me how easily we forget that growth doesn’t have to look flawless to be real, and how the pressure to be perfect can quietly drain the joy from our lives and relationships.

The Trap of Trying to Get It All Right

So many of us learned early on that love and approval came from doing things “right.” Maybe it started as wanting to make our parents proud, or as the good student who always aimed for A’s. Maybe it developed as a reaction to a chaotic childhood. Somewhere along the way, that desire to do well can turn into a deep, relentless fear of messing up.

Perfectionism often disguises itself as responsibility or ambition, but underneath it’s usually anxiety and shame. We tell ourselves, “If I just get it right, I’ll finally feel good enough.” But perfectionism doesn’t deliver peace—it keeps moving the goalpost.

Research shows that perfectionism has been steadily rising over the past few decades, and with it, rates of anxiety and burnout. It’s exhausting to live in constant evaluation mode, scanning for what could have been better. It robs us of rest, creativity, and genuine connection.

How It Affects Our Relationships

Perfectionism doesn’t stay contained inside of us; it spills out into our relationships. When we hold ourselves to impossible standards, we often, consciously or not, expect the same from others. We might become overly critical, frustrated, or withdrawn when things don’t go as planned. Or, on the flip side, we might hide our needs to appear easygoing and capable, even when we’re struggling inside.

In couples work, this pattern often looks like one partner overfunctioning—doing everything to keep the peace—while the other feels inadequate or micromanaged. Both people end up disconnected and tired.

When perfectionism takes the wheel, authenticity takes a back seat. True intimacy requires vulnerability, and vulnerability means being imperfect.

How Nature Gently Rewrites the Story

Nature, thankfully, doesn’t share our obsession with perfection. It’s a masterclass in imperfection and resilience. The forest floor is full of broken branches, fallen leaves, and tangled roots, and yet it’s thriving. A crooked tree still reaches for the sun. A cloudy morning still births a stunning sunrise.

Spending time in nature has a way of softening the hard edges of perfectionism. Research on nature connection and ecotherapy shows that being in natural spaces reduces self-critical thinking and promotes calm, openness, and self-compassion. But even without the science, most of us know the feeling: we exhale more deeply outdoors. Our nervous systems settle. We remember that we belong.

In my own nature therapy work, I often see people rediscover parts of themselves that perfectionism silenced. Sitting quietly beside a creek, someone might notice how the water flows around obstacles rather than fighting them. Watching the changing light, another person might realize that beauty often lies in transition—not in control.

What the Flower Taught Me

That little flower growing from the rock still comes to mind when I find myself striving to get everything “just right.” It didn’t wait for perfect conditions. It bloomed with what it had.

That’s what healing perfectionism looks like. It’s not about lowering standards but about loosening our grip. It’s remembering that our worth isn’t earned through flawlessness but through simply existing, growing, and showing up as we are.

Small Practices to Try

If you find perfectionism whispering in your ear, here are a few nature-inspired ways to shift your relationship with it:

1. Go on a “no-goal” walk. Leave your fitness tracker behind. Let your senses lead—notice color, texture, sound. Wander without measuring.
2. Find beauty in imperfection. Look for something in nature that’s weathered, cracked, or asymmetrical, and take in its quiet beauty.
3. Pause before fixing. When something feels off or “not good enough,” step outside and take three breaths. Ask yourself: What if this moment didn’t need fixing?
4. Reflect in nature’s mirror. Sit by a tree or stream and write about what you notice in it that feels true for you—its patience, flexibility, or resilience.

Moving from Perfection to Presence

Nature doesn’t judge the crooked branch or the uneven hillside. Everything belongs. When we spend time outside, we’re reminded that we belong too—not because we’re polished or productive, but because we’re part of life’s unfolding.

As we begin to release perfectionism’s grip, our relationships often soften too. We become easier to be around, more real, more forgiving, more at ease. We start listening instead of performing. We show love in honest, unguarded ways.

Maybe that’s the real lesson from the flower in the rock: you don’t have to have everything figured out to bloom. You just need to open toward the light, exactly where you are.

Anxiety and chronic stress are among the most common concerns people bring into therapy.  Symptoms like racing thoughts, muscle tension, difficulty sleeping, and restlessness are often linked to an overactive nervous system.  While traditional therapy offers many effective tools an often-overlooked ally in this healing process is the natural world. Nature-based therapy provides a unique way to calm the body and mind by directly engaging the nervous system. Ready for a high school biology review?

The Nervous System and Anxiety

The autonomic nervous system has two primary branches: the sympathetic nervous system (responsible for the “fight or flight” responses) and the parasympathetic nervous system (responsible for the “rest and digest” states). When someone lives with chronic anxiety or stress, the sympathetic system tends to dominate, flooding the body with cortisol and adrenaline. Over time, this imbalance can leave people feeling stuck in hypervigilance or burnout.

Polyvagal Theory, developed by Stepen Porges (2011), adds another layer of understanding by describing how cues of safety or danger shift the nervous system between states of connection, mobilization, and shutdown. To restore balance, we need environments and practices that signal safety to the nervous system. This is where nature plays an invaluable role.

Nature as a Regulator of Stress Responses

A growing body of research shows that spending time outdoors directly reduces markers of stress.

*Lower Cortisol Levels: Studies demonstrate the time in green spaces reduces cortisol, the body’s primary stress hormone (Hunter et al., 2019).

*Heart Rate and Blood Pressure: Exposure to natural settings lowers heart rate and blood pressure compared to urban environments (Park et al, 2910).

*Brain Function: fMRI studies suggest that nature exposure increases activity in the brain regions linked to empathy and calm, while reducing activity in the amygdala, which processes fear and stress (Bratman et all, 2015).

Even short exposures like 20 minutes in the park can produce measurable changes. For people with anxiety, this means outdoor therapy offers not just symbolic relief but physiological regulation.

How Nature-Based Therapy Calms the Nervous System

1. Sensory Grounding- Nature provides endless opportunities for grounding. The sound of water, the feel of bark, the sight of open skies all stimulate the senses in calming ways. These sensory experiences gently pull people out of anxious thought spirals and into the present moment. 
2. Rhythms and Patterns-The nervous system responds positively to gentle rhythms such as wave lapping, wind moving through grass, or birdsong. These natural patterns act like co-regulation for the body, slowing breathing and heart rate without conscious effort. Sitting near water or walking under trees can help anxious people experience regulation simply by tuning in to the environment.
3. Movement and Bilateral Stimulation-Walking outdoors offers bilateral stimulation (left-right movement), which is also a feature of trauma therapies like EMDR. Gentle walking while in silence or conversation provides less internal pressure and helps regulate the nervous system by engaging the body in rhythmic, bilateral movement. 
4. Cues for Safety-According to Polyvagal Theory, safety cues calm the vagus nerve and support social engagement. Environments with natural light, open spaces, and non-threatening sensory input provide these cues. Unlike enclosed offices, where fluorescent lights and noise can feel overstimulating, natural settings offer implicit signals of safety and refuge.

 

Evidence-Based Benefits for Anxiety and Stress

*Forest Bathing (Shinrin-yoku): Japanese studies show that forest walks significantly reduce cortisol and improve mood compared to urban walks (Park et al, 2010).

*Green Exercise: Research shows that exercise in natural environments leads to greater reductions in depression and anxiety than indoor exercise (Barton & Pretty, 2010).

*Attention Restoration Theory: Natural settings replenish directed attention, which is often depleted by the demands of modern life and contributes to mental fatigue and stress (Kaplan & Kaplan, 1989).

Taken together, these findings suggest that outdoor therapy sessions may improve outcomes for people with stress and anxiety disorders, complementing traditional talk therapy approaches.

Mindful Walking: Begin with a slow, intentional walk where the focus is on breathing and noticing surroundings.  

Sensory Practices: To begin, engage in one sense at a time.  For example, listen for the farthest sound (hearing), or notice three different shades of green (eyesight). This interrupts anxious thought loops and engages the parasympathetic nervous system.

Breathwork Outdoors: Practicing slow, diaphragmatic breathing outdoors can be especially effective, as natural surroundings reinforce calm. People often report it feels easier to slow down in fresh air than inside a building.

Symbolic Exploration: Reflect on metaphors from nature.  For example, how a rooted tree weathers storms. Symbolism offers gentle ways to reframe anxious thoughts.

Conclusion

Anxiety and stress place heavy demands on the nervous system. Nature-based therapy provides a direct pathway to regulation, grounding and relief by working with the body’s physiology rather than against it. The gentle rhythms of the natural world can help us move from states of overwhelm into calm and connection.

References:

Barton, J., & Pretty, J. (2010). What is the best does of nature and green exercise for improving mental health? A multi-study analysis. Environmental Science & Technology, 44 (10), 3947-3955.

Bratman, G.N., Hamilton, J.P., Hahn, K.S., Daily, G.C., & Gross, J. J. (2015). Nature experience reduces rumination and subgenual prefontal cortex activation. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 112 (28), 8567-8572.

Hunter, M.R., Gillespie, B.W., & Chen, S.Y. (2019). Urban nature experiences reduce stress in the context of daily life based on salivary biomarkers. Frontiers in Psychology, 10, 722.

Kaplan, R., & Kaplan, S. (1989). The Experience of Nature: A Psychological Perspective. Cambridge University Press.

Park, B.J., Tsunetsugu, Y., Kasetani, T., Kagawa, T., & Miyazaki, Y. (2010). The physiological effects of Shinrin-yoku (taking in the forest atmosphere or forest bathing): Evidence from field experiments in 24 forests across Japa. Environmental Health and Preventive Medicine, 15(1), 18-26.

Porges, S.W. (20111). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. Norton.

In recent years trauma-informed care has become an essential framework across many fields, from education and healthcare to psychotherapy. As a licensed clinical social worker and certified nature therapy guide, I’ve found that nature-based practices align beautifully with trauma-informed principles. In fact, nature therapy, sometimes called ecotherapy, can be a deeply healing and accessible approach for individuals with trauma histories.

This blog explores how nature therapy functions as a trauma-informed practice and why it can be such a powerful complement (or alternative) to traditional clinical work.

Understanding Trauma-Informed Care

The trauma-informed model was developed to shift the question from “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?” (Fallot & Harris, 2009). At its core, trauma-informed care recognizes the widespread impact of trauma and seeks to create spaces that promote safety, empowerment, and healing. According to SAMHSA (2014), trauma-informed care is guided by six key principles:

1. Safety
2. Trustworthiness and Transparency
3. Peer Support
4. Collaboration and Mutuality
5. Empowerment, Voice, and Choice
6. Cultural, Historical, and Gender Issues.

Let’s look at how these principles show up organically in nature therapy.

1. Safety: The Ground of All Healing

Many trauma survivors experience chronic hyperarousal, difficulty regulating their nervous systems, and a fundamental lack of safety in their bodies or environments. Nature therapy offers a unique opportunity to regulate the nervous system gently and non-invasively.

Spending time in natural spaces has been shown to lower cortisol levels, reduce blood pressure, and calm the stress response (Park et al., 2010). A guided walk through a quiet forest or along a river can help clients feel grounded without requiring them to verbally process painful memories. There’s no pressure to “perform” or disclose, just the calming presence of trees, birdsong, or the rhythm of footsteps on dirt.

Trauma-informed takeaway: Nature is non-judgmental. The embodied experience of sensory safety through the sunlight filtering through leaves, the smell of pine, the feel of solid ground underfoot, can build a somatic sense of safety that is foundational for trauma healing.

2. Trust and Transparency in a Relational Container

In nature therapy, the relationship is not just between guide and participant, but also between the participant and the natural world. As a guide, I create clear agreements, offer gentle invitations (never directives), and encourage consent-based participation.

This models trustworthiness and gives the nervous system the consistency it craves. Nature itself is reliable: seasons follow patterns, rivers flow, trees sway predictably in the wind. In a world that may have felt chaotic or threatening for trauma survivors, these natural rhythms can be profoundly reassuring.

Trauma-informed takeaway: Nature therapy builds trust through clear structure, gentle pacing, and the inherent reliability of natural processes.

3. Peer Support and Shared Humanity

Many nature therapy experiences are done in small groups, which can gently foster peer connection without pressure. Sharing space in nature with others, walking in silence, pausing together at a viewpoint, journaling side by side can create a subtle sense of solidarity.
Clients often feel less alone when they see others respond with awe, emotion, or stillness in the same landscape. Over time, nature can become the “safe other” in attachment work. It is a consistent presence that supports co-regulation.

Trauma-informed takeaway: The shared human experience of being in nature can offer quiet peer support, even when words aren’t spoken.

4. Collaboration and Mutuality

Unlike some top-down therapeutic models, nature therapy is built on partnership. The guide is not “fixing” the client. Instead, we co-create an experience where the participant can explore their own rhythms, insights, and healing journey. Even in a group setting, participants are empowered to set boundaries and choose how (or if) they engage with each activity.

Nature therapy also honors the wisdom of Indigenous cultures and earth-based traditions, which have long understood the therapeutic role of the land. This reminds us that healing is communal, relational, and reciprocal.
Trauma-informed takeaway: Nature honors autonomy, co-creation, and the
participant’s inner wisdom.

5. Empowerment, Voice, and Choice

Choice is central to trauma-informed work and is often lacking in traditional therapy setting where clients are expected to speak, analyze, or follow a structured format. In nature therapy, participants are invited, not told, to engage with the environment. They can walk barefoot or not, close their eyes or not, share reflections or simply listen.

The natural world also invites a kind of quiet empowerment. A person might notice they can feel joy again when they see a butterfly or a golden aspen. They may feel powerful after hiking a trail or connected when they sit beneath a tree. These are deeply empowering moments that are unprompted and unscripted.

Trauma-informed takeaway: Nature therapy fosters self-agency by honoring choices and allowing participants to follow their own impulses toward healing.

6. Cultural, Historical, and Gender Sensitivity

Finally, trauma-informed practice must consider identity, history, and power. Nature therapy invites us to reconnect with ancestral practices, land-based wisdom, and cultural traditions that many of us have been separated from due to colonization or urbanization.

For some, nature is a place of deep connection to family, memory, or spiritual identity. For others, the outdoors may have felt unsafe or exclusionary. As guides, we must honor these diverse experiences and intentionally create spaces where all identities are welcome.

Trauma-informed takeaway: Healing with nature includes acknowledging who has historically had access to land, safety and rest, and making space for inclusive, culturally aware experiences.

Nature Doesn’t Rush You

One of my favorite things about nature therapy is that it moves at the pace of real healing. Trauma doesn’t respond well to pressure or intensity. It needs time, spaciousness, and gentle repetition. Nature offers this rhythm naturally. There’s a reason so many people say things like “I feel like I can finally breathe” when they step outside. Nature co-regulates us. It reminds us that we are not broken, we are responding exactly as we should to what we’ve been through. And within that response is the possibility of healing.

Final Thoughts

Trauma-informed care isn’t a checklist. It’s a way of being, with others, with ourselves, and with the world. Nature therapy embodies that way of being through presence, connection, and radical gentleness.

Whether you’re a therapist, a trauma survivor, or someone seeking more ease in your nervous system, I invite you to explore what healing with nature might offer you.

References:

*Fallot, R.D., & Harris N. (2009). Creating Cultures of Trauma-Informed Care (CCTIC): A Self- Assessment and Planning Protocol. Community Connections.
*SAMHSA (2014). SAMHSA’s Concept of Trauma and Guidance for Trauma-Informed Approach. PDF.
*Park, BlJ., Tsunetsugu, Y., Kasetani, T., Kagawa, T., & Miyazaki, Y. (2010). The physiological effects of Shinrinyoku (taking in the forest atmosphere or forest bathing): evidence from field experiments in 24
forests across Japan. Environmental Health and Preventive Medicine, 15(1), 18-26.
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*Fisher, J. (2017). Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Internal Self- Alienation. Routledge.